Before the Grandparenting Ministry started at FBCW, we really thought we were doing a terrific job as the fun grandpa and grandma because we were very active in the lives of our grandchildren. We attended their sports activities, school activities, church activities, cared for them as often as their parents requested, and on top of that, we prayed for them every day. It was when we began to study with a group of fellow Christian grandparents what God’s Word has to say about our biblical role as Christian grandparents that we realized God’s design for
Intentional Christian Grandparents is so much more.
Together with approximately 25-30 other grandparents from FBCW, we have studied these challenging grandparent topics:
What is the Biblical Role of a Grandparent—Psalm 78:5-6: He commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and
Passing on a Heritage of Faith with Enthusiasm and Joy—1 Thessalonians 5:16-18: Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.
Practical Principles for Developing Relationships with Your Grandkids—1 Corinthians 13:4-5: Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being
Never Too Late: Encouraging Faith in Your Adult Children—Romans 1:16: For I am not ashamed of the
Loving Grandkids in Scary Times—Psalms 23:4: Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me.
How to Pray and Read the Bible With Your Grandchildren—Deuteronomy 6:
Grandparenting Through a Child’s Divorce—You might be the Esther in your family. God has placed grandparents in the family for “such as time as this” Esther 4:14.
Grandparenting at a Distance—Ephesians 4:2: Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
This ministry began with a group of enthusiastic grandparents forming the Grandparent Ministry Leadership team. Here are some thoughts the Grandparent Ministry Leadership
“The Intentional Grandparenting seminar was so valuable. I would recommend it to all grandparents. I will use many of the ideas with my grandchildren. One method I will use is the practice of asking a blessing on them. (note Numbers 6:24-26) The blessing will focus them on many important areas
“The intentional Grandparenting seminar was spectacular. It gave many practical points on how we can influence our grandchildren toward spiritual things and salvation. I would recommend it for parents as well as grandparents.”
Angie and Keith Acord:
“We thought we were good grandparents, but what we have realized is that isn't good enough. We weren't being as intentional in presenting the gospel as we are called to do by passing down our faith
Dallas and Joanne Brower:
“Based on the world's definition and
“I thought the Seminar was absolutely great. Several things stand out, but I’ll focus on three.
- The cultural deceit – a “
leisureville” mentality that downplays and inhibits family ties (we’re spending our children’s inheritance!), or grandparents’ value is captured in their role as playmatefor grandchildren. God wants our role as grandparents to be so much more than a playmate.
- The ministry vacuum – Churches currently give little attention to grandparenting.
- Praying a blessing over your grandchildren from Numbers 6:24-26: The Lord bless you and keep you; The Lord make His face shine upon you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace.
There were so many good things, it’s hard to stop.”
“Wow, what a conference! I did not expect much, and I thought we were doing the right things. Now, I see much clearer my role as a grandparent and now know we have just scratched the surface. The presentation and discussions were practical and opened my eyes to God's direction for me as an intentional grandparent. I strongly feel every grandparent, and every parent should attend this seminar if they are Christians and want to see their kids and grandkids become followers of Jesus Christ.”
“After attending the conference, I have a much better understanding of our role in walking beside our children to support, encourage, and reinforce the godly values and lessons our children are endeavoring to teach our grandchildren. In cases where our grandchildren do not have godly parents, the great command for us to step up to be the godly influence in our grandchildren's lives is very clear. What I learned from the conference has made me want to be more intentional in my grandparenting so that whether we are eating a meal together, playing a board game, or just hanging together, they will experience the love and grace of Jesus through my words and actions.”
On Saturday, August 26, Larry Fowler, founder of the Legacy Coalition led the Grandparenting Matters Seminar at FBCW. Those of us who attended came away challenged with a burning passion to pass on a legacy of faith to our grandkids. We want to be “INTENTIONAL CHRISTIAN GRANDPARENTS” as described in the following declaration.
The Intentional Christian Grandparent Declaration, by Larry Fowler (founder of the Legacy Coalition)
I am a grandparent and this is my declaration. Yes, I am a grandparent, but I am more than a
grandparent. I am a Christian grandparent.
I believe the Bible and the God of the Bible.
I've received the grace of the Gospel of the Christ of the Bible and I desire to be a life-long devoted disciple.
I want my grandchildren to do the same!
Yes, I am a Christian grandparent, but I am more than that. I am an intentional Christian grandparent and this is my declaration.
I love my grandkids, so I will hold them when they're born, I will cuddle them when they are one, chase them when they are two, read to them when they are three, play with them when they are four and laugh at their jokes when they are five. I'll support them, exhort them, cheer them, revere them, I'll praise them; even help raise them. I will be there for them, but that's not enough! As an intentional Christian grandparent, I will do more.
I will pass on my faith, but my vision is beyond that. I will perpetuate my faith, therefore; I will teach two generations. But, I will not only teach two generations, I will think four generations.
I will ponder what kind of grandparent must I be, so my grandchild becomes one like me, then his carries on the legacy. Yes, I am an intentional Christian grandparent.
Culture says, "Retire and go play." I say; "No thanks. I'll pray!"
Culture says; "Pursue affluence." I say; "I'll pursue influence."
Culture says; "You're old, you did your time." I say; "Not so! I'm in my prime."
Culture says about the young generation; "You can't relate." I say; "Ain't true. My influence is great!"
I know my grandchildren need me, but from
So, what is intentional Christian grandparenting? Let me spell it out for you.
I will Guide grandkids with grace.
I will Respect parent roles.
I will Abound in my affection.
I will Nurture their nature.
I will Deal with the dilemma of distance.
I will Pray with passion and purpose.
I will Adjust my attitude, in case
I need to Restore relationships.
I will Excel in my example.
I will Number my days.
I will Tell them my testimony.
I will Intentionally influence.
I will Never neglect the newest generation.
And, most importantly,
I will Give them the Gospel!
Because I am an Intentional Christian Grandparent and this is my declaration!