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If being financially fit is one of your goals for 2018, you need to start planning now.  

If you are like most people, you have made a few New Year’s resolutions.  Many of you are probably thinking of becoming more physically fit.  You may be dieting in order to control your weight.  Or, you may be going to the gym more often or for the first time.  We all have good intentions this time of year, but it takes more than good intentions to reach our goals.  In Luke 14:28-30, it says: "For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost, whether he has enough to finish it, lest, after he has laid the foundation and is not able to finish it, all who see it begin to mock him, saying 'This man began to build and was not able to finish.'" You need a plan! 

I once knew two district managers with plans to improve results in their respective districts.  I will call them District Managers “A” and “B.”  Manager “A” had a much better plan than Manager “B,” but at the end of the year, District “B” outperformed them. “The reason” you ask? Manager “B” executed his plan, while Manager “A” did not.  The point is it takes a plan, but it also takes execution of that plan!  And, the sooner you implement the plan, the sooner you will see results.  If being financially fit is your resolution, you need to start planning now. Don’t let your efforts fail because you didn’t plan.  Finish your “tower” and get control of your finances.  Consider the following: 

Where do I want to be financially by next year? 

Where would you like to be by the end of 2018 with your finances?  Would you have less credit card debt?  No house payment or car payment?  What about no student loan debt?  Would you like to have an emergency fund to handle those unexpected problems that crop up during the year like car repairs, medical bills, loss of a job, etc.?  How about a fully funded retirement plan?  A plan will help you reach your goals. The plan needs to be for specific actions that you will carry out THIS year!  We teach in Financial Peace University a set of steps to follow that breaks it down into small “bite-size” actions.  If you are serious about becoming financially fit, you might consider enrolling in the February class.    

How can I get started reducing or eliminating debt? 

There are two basic steps to eliminating debt: 

First, you need to stop accumulating debt.  To get out of a hole, you have to stop digging.  You need to quit charging for things or taking out loans. Likewise, I would warn against debt consolidation because you are just trading one kind of debt for another.  And, in many instances, you may be trading unsecured debt for secured debt.  More than anything, you must look at debt differently than in the pastGod does not wish you to be indebted.  In Proverbs 22:7, it says: "The rich rules over the poor and the borrower is servant to the lender." You have to truly despise debt.  If you do, you will pay it off faster and can be rid of it forever.  That does mean you might have to delay some things you want! But, if you delay those purchases that would require more debt, you’ll reap the rewards later 

The second step to eliminating debt is to develop a budget and stick to it.  And, you need to do so EVERY month for the rest of your life.  I know that is a big commitment, but it does become fairly simple after the first two or three months.  A budget does not mean you cannot spend money.  It simply means you consciously tell your money where you want to spend it instead of waking up at the end of the month and wondering where it went!  Scriptures say: "Be diligent to know the state of your flocks, and attend to your herds." Proverbs 27:23.  You need to know the state of your finances (flocks) and plan for them. 

What are my biggest obstacles? 

Money problems affect us all.  It would be nice if everyone was debt free with no money worries.  Making changes in how we handle money is difficult.  But, once you identify the obstacles that have held you back in the past, you can deal with them.  Those obstacles may be spending money you don’t have, family members who spend money too freely, etc.  Does it seem like everything becomes an emergency and puts you back into debt?  Maybe an emergency fund, or as we used to call it “a rainy day fund” is the answer. 

Financial Peace University classes can teach you how to identify and overcome your own financial obstacles.  For a more personalized plan, consider meeting with a financial coach who can offer an independent perspective to help you reach your goals. We have both available through the church. 

And, last but not least, remember to "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your request be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7).   God wants us to be active in resolving financial problems, but He wants us to understand He has a plan and if we ask Him for that plan and abide in Him, it will all be as it should.   

So, now that you’ve faced the hard questions, are you ready to do the work to become financially fit?  With the right level of determination, a little bit of planning, and a whole lot of prayer, you can do it! 

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What’s on your schedule for the day?  I don’t know about you, but when I wake up in the morning, my mind is instantly flooded with the day’s to-do list.  It’s easy to roll out of bed and jump right in with both feet running, checking items off that list.  Some days, the temptation to put off my time with God until later in the day is pretty high.  I think to myself, “I’ll read my Bible at lunch.”  Then at lunch, I’m already way behind schedule, so I put it off until after dinner.  By then, I’m so exhausted all I want to do is crash my head into the pillow and sleep.  If I’m not careful and before I know it, I can find myself several days into this routine before I realize I’ve spent no time with God.

Maybe you’re like me? 

Throughout the day, my mind is racing from one thing to the next…one thought to another even before I’ve had time to process the original thought.  I’m so focused on the “next thing.”  All. The. Time.  “Where do I need to be next?  What’s the next item on the list?”  Even when I’m in the middle of one thing, my mind is at least 2-3 steps ahead, trying to stay on schedule and get to where I need to be for the next activity.  Gotta go, go, go…places to be and things to do.

So much so, that I rarely take time to enjoy the moment I’m in.

In my mid-40’s now, it seems my memory is fading more and more every day.  I can remember certain days in the lives of my kids when they were younger.  The first time I met my daughter in the hospital.  Seven months later, the life in her eyes after surviving open-heart surgery.  The day my boys were born. The day I first heard them say “dad.”  Various “hallmark” days between then and now.  I think that’s not simply because my memory is fading with age, but more likely because I don’t enjoy the moment for what it is sometimes.  I’ve usually got my phone in my hand and am distracted with something else…mentally someplace else rather than in the moment.

Can you relate to any of this?

I can remember going through various stages with my kids.  When they were in diapers, I was thinking, “Man, I can’t wait until we’re out of diapers…I can’t wait until he says his first word…until he starts walking…until school starts so we can have our day back and actually get something done around the house.”  Always looking for what’s next and not enjoying the moment.

Have you ever found yourself doing that?

I attended my 5th grade son’s DARE graduation last night and came face-to-face with the realization that my time is much shorter than I know.  Afterward, I was looking through some pictures and found several of my daughter when she was four years old.  On the verge of her graduating high school in a few short months, I find myself wondering how many moments I missed because I was too busy to enjoy them…too distracted to be with her in the moment.

And, here I find myself thinking, “Man I sure do miss those simpler days…I miss the days when the biggest responsibility was making sure their diaper was changed and that they were fed.

Let’s face it…the distractions of this world are many—tools used by the devil to rob us of our joy.  Especially during this time of year, the distractions pull our focus away from the reason we celebrate Christmas. We’ve got decorations to put up, lights to hang, trees to trim, presents to buy and wrap, parties to attend and host…all on top of our normal everyday schedules!

It can be overwhelming, can’t it?

I think our challenge this particular season should be to enjoy the moment for what it is…the celebration of the birth of a Savior.  It’s the time we celebrate the life that ultimately conquered death.  Our life is spared, because His life was given.  For me personally, I think my biggest challenge this season is to put away the distractions…to let that call go to voicemail…to not check emails from my phone when I can be engaging my family…and to recognize that the details of our work (and our ministry) should not be given priority over the time we spend with our family.  And, that the time we spend with our family should not be given priority over the time we spend with our Savior.

Instead of being robbed of our joy this joyous season, let’s find our joy through a renewed relationship with the King.

It’s interesting that the Spanish word for “more” is “más.” Christmas - Christ more.  More than what?  EVERYTHING.  More Christ, less me.  I don’t know what’s on your schedule today or how you’ve prioritized it.  I know what’s on mine, and everything else can wait…because right now, I’m gonna go spend some time with my Jesus…followed by some time with my family…and I hope you can make time to do the same.

Let this be our prayer this season of Christmas.

God, create a clean heart for me

and renew a steadfast spirit within me.

Do not banish me from Your presence

or take Your Holy Spirit from me.

Restore the joy of Your salvation to me,

and give me a willing spirit.

Then I will teach the rebellious Your ways,

and sinners will return to You. - Psalm 51:10-13

 

Merry CHRISTmas! Christ more.

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